5 Tips for Cultivating Good Work Relationships

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1.  Communicate.  This one would seem like a no brainer; but, I’m always amazed at the lack of communication I find in the places I have worked.  Here is an example: Employee A organizes the adult programming for a library.  She has scheduled movies on a certain night of the week for a few years.  She logs onto the calendar to book the community room several months ahead and finds that Employee B, the person who does children’s programming has booked the same night for several months.  Employee A can move the movie night to another night; but, it will require training a generally elderly population into switching nights.  It will also require a rescheduling of personnel.  All of this is fine in the long run; after all, staff must share the facilities.  The problem exists because Employee B didn’t have the courtesy to just call up Employee A and have a discussion about booking the room and there by at least giving Employee A a heads up.  Now there are feelings of irritation and suspicion instead of one of teamwork.  Employee B missed an opportunity to bond with her colleague and build a relationship based on negotiation and support.  Do you think Employee A will jump at the chance to help out Employee B should she need it?  I doubt it.  Pick up the phone or wander down to your colleague’s desk and talk them.

2.  Set up your coworkers to succeed.  What I mean by that is if you are presented with an opportunity to make a situation smoother or give your coworker the information they need to successfully navigate a problem, DO IT!  A good example is when dealing with a customer complaint that needs to be handed off to the next person.  Take a moment, whether by phone or in person, to bring your coworker up to speed in an objective way.  You don’t have to bias your coworker’s opinion of the customer; but, you can give them all the facts and even suggestions for resolution if you have any.  If you need to forward a customer call to another person, take a moment to introduce them to the problem before allowing the call to transfer.  This is a win/win situation because not only are you building a trusting relationship with your colleague, you are also improving customer service.  There is nothing more annoying than calling a customer service line and getting handed off  a million times and having to tell each new person the whole story.

3.  Avoid office gossip.  This is hard.  There is always one person in any workplace that others like to complain about.  Try to avoid this kind of chit chat.  Although it may feeling like a bit of coworker bonding at the moment, it is actually planting the seeds of distrust in everyone involved.  If your coworkers talk about your other coworker behind their back, who’s to say they don’t talk about you when you’re not there?  And there lies the rub.  By not participating in these conversations, you coworkers quickly learn to curb these types of bitch fests while you are around.  They also begin to realize that you are a person that can be trusted to treat others fairly.  This is an excellent role to have in an organization because it puts you in a position of being able to help create a cohesive team and change a distrustful atmosphere.

4. Give when you can.  There are times in every organization when you are less busy than someone else.  If you see your coworker stressed from overwork and you have time, offer to help.  If you have an answer needed to help a customer, offer it.  In my library I’m seen as one of the techie people around here and reference staff have been known to interrupt my offdesk time to get me to help a customer with a computer question.  When I was younger, this would sometimes irritate me because I felt that the other staff should know these things.  But, now that I’m older and just more experienced I realize that we all have our strengths and roles.  Mine is to help people with computer issues that are beyond basic troubleshoots.  I’ve had coworkers whose strengths were in business resources, government documents and geneology and I was happy to pass the customer to them.  That’s teamwork and when the team is working together, the customer always wins.

5. Show respect to others at all times, even when someone drives you crazy.  This can sometimes be hard; but, it is really not negotiable if you want good working relationships with coworkers.  Deliver criticism gently and receive it maturely.  I’ve seen coworkers snap at each other, treat each other rudely and disrespect each other in a whole gamut of ways I had never thought of before.  I’ve had a boss who yelled and kicked file cabinets and liked to make people cry.  I’ve had a boss who never came out of her office even if the library was crazy and we needed her help.  I’ve seen coworkers treat nonprofessional staff as if they were idiots.  All of this behavior leads to a workplace in chaos which is always bad for the customer.  And it may be a cliche; but, seriously, a little respect goes a long way.

This is a good start.  I’m sure there are many other ways to build good rapport with the folks you work with day in and day out.  Some of us spend as much time with our coworkers as we do with our families.    We should take some care tending to these relationships.

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Tax Season Hell: How to Survive

Photo: Paul Keleher

Photo: Paul Keleher

The dreaded tax season is upon us.  Tax season brings a particular type of hell to libraries and even the most calm and courteous of library staff is stressed and has their patience tested on a daily basis.

There are many reasons for the added stress of providing an area for form and booklet distribution and/or a space for AARP volunteers that provide free tax preparation services.

1.  The tax season brings people to the library who don’t ordinarily use the library.  They may have never been to your particular branch of the library.  They wander around aimlessly or they zero in on you immediately and ask you where something is located.  Frequently the forms or volunteers they seek are under a giant sign and the person just failed to actually look for signs directing them.  They generally require special attention and added energy.

2.  Library staff answer the same questions over and over and over and over again.  We put up a million directional signs and yet we answer the Where is question so many times a day it becomes taxing (Ha!).

3. People ask us for tax advice which we are not qualified to give.  Many of us, myself included, don’t feel qualified enough to fill out the standard form for our own taxes!

4.  Our phone rings off the hook with the same questions: Do you have this particular form?  Where and when do you do taxes?

These factors add up to stress.  I’m not really sure why answering the same question a million times is stressful; but, I’m pretty sure that most people find it stressful, especially if it is not ordinary to one’s job.

This is a dangerous recipe if our library leaders wish us to continue to provide excellent customer service.  Oddly, in the past 15 years I’ve worked at quite a few public libraries and not once has leadership prepared staff for the added stress.  The Saint Paul Public Library’s main branch had a nice setup because they funneled people onto an elevator that took them right up to the fourth floor meeting room.  The folks that planned tried to limit the impact on staff as much as possible and most cases succeeded though I’m sure the occasional person wandered into the administrative offices seeking tax help.

I have been feeling short tempered this week.  Not only am I answering the same questions over and over and over; but, when I’m staffing the reference desk I’m also required to shush the folks waiting to have their taxes done.  Contrary to stereotype, we actually don’t like to ask people to be quiet.  Just this morning,  a patron asked me to get the tax people to be quiet and I’ve had to ask them a half dozen times in 2 hours.  That is not only not fun, it’s stressful.  It’s so stressful in fact, if this was a regular thing, I would switch careers.

I’ve been thinking about ways I could have better prepared myself for this stressful time and came up with two tips that probably would have helped me.

1.  Sleep.  I’ve been staying up too late.  At this time, I actually need more sleep not less.  More sleep would give me a little extra reserve in the patience department.

2.  Exercise.  I needed to ramp up the morning and afternoon dog walks, which Henry would appreciate anyway.

These are two things I should have done leading up to this time; but, ultimately, I should address right now to help the next 6 weeks go smoother.

I wonder what leadership could do to help staff through stressful times.  At times when there are organizational layoffs, the surviving staff is stressed and overworked.  Holidays bring added stress to retail workers, package delivery people, restaurants and numerous other businesses.  I worked at Powell’s Books last year and actually served on a small team that was in charge of Christmas season store atmosphere.  Basically, we were in charge of scheduling a seemingly never ending stream of treats and meals to get everyone through the holidays.  Store managers also were acutely aware of the added stress because they also worked the floor and made it quite clear that if we were overwhelmed or over stressed that we just needed to speak up.

What can libraries be doing to help staff through the stress of tax season?  How are we preparing for the stress of the summer reading programs?  Budget cuts?  Stress brings bad customer service and we can’t afford to have that.

Ultimately we are responsible for our own stress levels and our own committment to good customer service.  We are responsible for our cheerfullness and our grouchiness.  What are you doing to relieve job stress?

Rules of Engagement: Dealing with Social Media or Online Conflict

The web is now participatory. We have profiles on social networking sites; we have blogs; we comment on blog posts; we review products, movies, music, books; we engage with unseen people all over the world. The anonymity of the net allows for a certain misbehavior that threatens to devalue the potential for intelligent dialogue and turn off folks who have something to offer.  Sharlyn Laubey over at Mashable has posted some excellent advice on how to handle and avoid virtual conflicts.

Link: How to Deal With Social Media Conflict

I love the first one: Don’t take it personally.  This of course is excellent advice for real world and virtual world.  It is actually my stumbling studies in Buddhism that has helped me learn this lesson the most.  There is such internal buildup when we take things personally and more often than not it has nothing to do with us.

Recession Survival Tip: Finding Value

One of the best ways to circumvent budget cuts is by fully understanding your value and selling it to those holding the purse strings.  If we don’t know the numbers ourselves, how can we convince anyone that the services we provide are worth saving?

George Needham over at OCLC has compiled an awesome list of links for libraries to determine values for services.    This is an excellent post and very timely.  Even if you are not employed by a library, this list will give you great insight into how you should be thinking.  Undergoing these kinds of studies and number crunching exercises is a great first step in ensuring your organization’s survival in hard times.

Library ROI: A Brief Webliography

Rudeness is for the Rich: Wealthy People Make Poor Conversational Partners: Scientific American

Rudeness is for the Rich: Wealthy People Make Poor Conversational Partners: Scientific American

I found this article surprising in some ways and sad in so many other ways.  I did not grow up in a wealthy family.  At one point during my childhood there were 4 generations living under one roof.  I grew up in a house where there was always someone home, someone to talk to.  I was never lonely.  I never lacked a conversation partner.

My parents were and still are friendly people.  My father would get out of the car at gas stations and talk to the attendant.  He could talk to anyone.  In the 70s, my parents joined a “van club” and we started traveling all over the East Coast with the club, going to Truck Ins and van shows and camping as a group.  I was quickly socialized to be able to chat with all sorts of adults and kids.  This training has served me well.  I’m not super extroverted; but, I have little trouble talking with anyone in small group settings.

I’m curious about this wall between the wealthy and the world.  What are they missing out on?

A few years ago, while living in Saint Paul, MN, my across the street neighbor began to have trouble with some college students 2 doors down who were under the mistaken impression that my neighbors had called the police on one of their parties.  At one point, they T.P.ed my neighbor’s yard.  My neighbor, wanting to start a healing dialogue attempted to talk to two of the students.  The young men were students at a small Catholic college known for having a wealthy student body.  These men were no exception.  One of them drove a car that cost more than my house.   My neighbor asked the young men to clean up his yard and explained that his children didn’t understand what was going on and were scared by the attention aimed at their house.  They students came across as not really caring about my neighbor or his family and didn’t really see what the big deal was.  My neighbor again asked that they clean his yard up and the one young man responded: just call your service.  At first my neighbor didn’t even understand what he was talking about.  When it finally dawned on him, he informed them that he didn’t have a “service” so the boys would have to clean it themselves.

I remember being astonished by this conversation.  First of all, I’m pretty sure I had never met anyone who had a “service” that they could call to clean up all their messes.  Secondly, I had met wealthy people before and not really noticed this level of poor communication, as if they didn’t need to be bothered with listening.   Part of it may just be the arrogance of youth.  But, my immediate next door neighbor was also a house filled with wealthy college students.  These students were respectful and polite.  One of them cleaned our gutters and shoveled our snow while I was recovering from a scooter accident.  Just nice young men. I even called the one man’s father, who owned the house, to tell him what a nice young man he had raised.

I don’t know how I feel about this article.  Confused.  I’ll leave it here for now and perhaps revisit it in down the road.

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Coffee in the Library

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I recently had a meeting with my boss about many things, mostly having to do with technology because I’m the emerging technology/web 2.0 librarian.  We talked for quite awhile and as we were wrapping up she asked me if there was anything else I wanted to discuss.  I looked down at my notes where I had scribbled:  Coffee Cop.    I took a deep breath.

Every library I’ve ever worked in has struggled with the idea of food and beverages in the library.  Traditional thought follows the line that such items would be banned to protect the books, carpet, furniture and computers.

I know that my current library has been very strict about enforcing the no beverages/no food in the library except for one small area of the library we call the cafe area.  The cafe area has easy chairs, the magazines, a fireplace, some small tables and chairs, a counter top with stools and even has a small pod coffee pot that dispenses a cup of coffee for $1.

By not allowing anything other than bottled water in the rest of the library, we have essentially been put in the role of Coffee Cop.  People wander in with their Dunkin Donuts cup and their laptop and we pounce on them and tell them they need to drink their coffee in the cafe area.

The problem with our current set of rules is that it creates an adversarial relationship immediately upon our customer entering the library. “Hey, you can’t have that in here.”    This is a problem.  There are so many folks bringing in coffee that it is a daily occurrence, sometimes several times a day.  Is this how we want to greet our customers?

What are we worried about?  The carpet?  It can be cleaned or a square replaced.  The keyboards?  They are relatively inexpensive.  Books?  We allow books out of the library …in fact, we encourage it and god knows what people do with the books at home.  I myself have eaten meals while reading, read in the bathtub, taken books to the beach and propped a cookbook up on the counter for reference as I cooked.  There just isn’t a compelling enough argument to justify creating an unwelcoming atmosphere.

I stated my case and my boss said she’d think about it and that we should talk about it as a group.

In an atmosphere where we fear decreased funding and we are looking to our customers to be our voice.  I say, welcome them into the library with open arms, coffee and all.

Malware and Virus Remover 2008

This weekend while surfing on the net I got a computer virus called Virus Remover 2008.  Now, I’m no slouch in the computer department.  I didn’t click on any pop up or e-mail attachment or even get tricked into accessing a website that was up for the sole purpose of downloading malicious software to my computer.

I’m also not a total computer geek; so, removing this particular virus is not going to be the easiest although I’ve gotten some advice from the IT guy at work.  I’ve had a virus before and ended up wiping my computer clean and reinstalling windows.  This particular move, one which is fairly easy and doesn’t really require advanced computer savviness saved me a few hundred dollars, which I then spent on an external hard drive I use to back up the things that are important to me: photos, music files, documents.  The irreplaceable stuff.

So, while this virus is annoying and will motivate me to reconfigure my security protocols, my most important data is safe.

Why am I telling you all of this?  Well, with precaution comes relaxation and because I’m not stressing out over my computer being down, I’ve had time to think about the nature of these viruses and wonder just who is creating them and why.

Creators of malicious software whether they are doing it for profit or just because they can are unique criminals because their crimes are so widespread, effecting enormous numbers of people; yet, they are sitting at a desk somewhere completely removed fromthe reality of their crime.  I imagine some of them trudge off to work as we do, except they spend their day writing code that will steal your personal data or trick you into buying “anti virus software” to remove the virus they installed in the first place.

Being removed from the consequences of your actions allows for so much leeway in what you will and won’t do.  How many of these malicious programmers would stick a gun in your face and take 250 dollars out of your pocket or break into your house and steal your personal identity information?  Probably not many of them…though perhaps a few.

It’s important to see how our actions here and now effect others now and later.

So, I will clean up my computer and file away two little lessons:  the precautionary work I did of backing up my hard drive has really paid off and I’m going to remember that the actions I take each day in my life have ripple effects all around me in ways that I may never even see.