Sundown March 4th, 2011 begins the start of the National Day of Unplugging, sponsored by Reboot. It’s odd that a group supporting the idea of unplugging is promoting their app and connecting to them via social networking; but, once you get past that oddity, you will come to see the idea that they are promoting. Reboot is a Jewish organization though their ideas are universal. They see the National Day of Unplugging as an opportunity for people to reclaim time, slow down their lives and reconnect with friends, family, the community and themselves.
Ultimately they hope that we’ll do this once a week, which is where the app comes in…a way to remind us to turn off. They are not anti-technology; they are just pro disconnecting from technology on a regular basis and reconnecting with loved ones, our community and ourselves.
I am going to take their challenge and refrain from e-mail, internet surfing and watching videos/tv (which I do on my laptop).
Currently my routine, and I actually find this sort of …not embarrassing…but disappointing maybe…is:
- Wake up and check email and overnight txts on my Android Phone.
- Drink too much coffee while reading email, The New York Times and sometimes Facebook. All on my laptop.
- Back home. Cook while sometimes listening to the radio or watching tv on my laptop.
- Watch streaming movies or TV on my laptop.
In 2004, I stopped watching TV. In 2005, while recovering from my accident, I started watching TV shows on DVD. In 2006, I again stopped watching TV. In 2008, I moved to NJ for my current job and probably by mid 2009, I started watching TV on my laptop. By last summer, I was watching TV on my laptop at least 4 times a week. I’m disappointed that I’ve let TV inch back into my daily life.
For the Day of Unplugging, I plan on getting home and cooking, maybe read or make art until bedtime. Saturday, I’ll wake up, drink too much coffee and eat breakfast. It is a rare weekend when my girlfriend and I don’t see each other; but, this weekend is one of those. I had already planned on working around the house and I’m sticking to that plan. I’m guessing it will be hard to go all day Saturday without checking email or reading the news.
What about you? Can you disconnect from your gadgets? How many times, on the weekend, do you check email? Do you text, use Facebook, surf the net? How many times do you watch TV, txt, surf the net instead of engaging with a human being?
I’m going to confess something that is hard to confess. I don’t have any friends in Asbury Park. I moved here over a year ago and I have a couple of acquaintances; but, no real friends. I have plenty of excuses: too tired after work to volunteer, spend many weekends in Brooklyn with Anya, haven’t found my people. I understand that when you move alone to a new place, it is hard to make new friends. But, sitting at home watching Law and Order reruns on my laptop is not helping matters.
Take the challenge with me. I’ll be back in a few days to let you know how it went.
For further reading on this subject, check out one of my favorite Buddhist teachers, Sharon Salzberg.